Message To All WOMEN!!! You Need To Know Your Worth!!!

I spoke to a friend of mine last night, and she is going thru a difficult time right now in her marriage and God gave me the opportunity and honor to speak to her. We cried, laughed and cried some more. That's why I'm sending this message to all the Ladies.

It's not easy being Single so I know Marriage is a difficult task. I was Single, then Married, Divored and now Single again. I'm not going to be negative about Marriage because I believe marriage is a Beautiful thing. But it's only Beautiful when God puts the Man & the Woman together. Our emotions and feelings can get the best of us and that can lead us into situations that we would have never thought that we would be in. As a Christian Hispanic woman, many Christian women and especially Hispanic Christian women feel that we have to be "Low". Yes Men are Head of the Household but not Better than US!!! Many Christian men forget that women need to be LOVED not LOWERED. Physical abuse, Verbal abuse or any abuse for that matter should NOT be tolerated by Any Female. We have to understand that If a Man must Love his wife as God Loved the Church, we must stand by those standards. I was in a marriage where my ex-husband was not physically abusive (I know he wouldn't dare to anyway cause I would hurt him with any I got hands on and my dad would of Killed him. LOL!!) but he was Very Very verbally abusive and if you mix that with his fake Brady Bunch family and especially a mother-in-law that thinks that her son is god's gift to women, that is BAD NEWS!! Constant sayings that you are Not worth it, or You are not Christian enough for my son, you come from a dysfunctional family, or you're getting fat, or I can find someone better. Believe you me Enough is Enough, Take Charge of Your Life and Put it in God's Hands!!!! If you are in a Abusive relationship no matter how Big or small you need to appriciate your life and think to yourself "Is he worth me starving myself to be skinny, is he worth popping depression pills everyday, is he worth me crying every night because only sees you as a piece of meat to just have sex with or Is he worth Killing yourself over?" I DON'T THINK SO!!! If he tells you "I don't Love you anymore" just remember that Jesus Loves You More and You are Worth IT!!! If you are planning to get married in the near future, Pray for comfirmation that it's His will. Pray for over your Mind and your Heart cause that's what satan wants to destroy. I don't want you to go thru what I've been thru!!! Keep your head up cause You Are and Will Always Be a WOMAN OF GOD!!!

Love,

La D